It has been over one week since I published my last post. The family video was a great way to end the year of blogging. I will admit I watched it a hundred times.
However, with previous posts and after I did that video post, you might think that my family and I have cartoon hearts coming out of our eyes for each other; that the children are just like the Brady's or that I am as perfect as June Cleaver.
It's just not true. I just don't write about it here on this blog.
The truth is I have really bad days. In fact, two days after I posted that video I took two naps, flipped out on every kid, checked out by 8pm and went to bed. So we are not like those icons from TV, but it doesn't mean I don't aspire to be.
In the blogosphere there are many women out there choosing to pick a special word to keep them focused on how they want to live this year of 2013. For instance the word might be Joy, or Love, or Organization, Or Service. I wasn't planning on participating in picking a word, but one word kept creeping into my head this week so I'm going to go with it. I think it will help me a lot.
Want to know what it is? It is.... drumroll please......
Purposeful.
I was in the produce department at the grocery store and I had this sudden urge to buy more than the usual bananas, apples, and potatoes. Same old, same old. I said to myself that I need to start being more purposeful in what I buy and what I make my family to eat. Then I thought it was strange that that word came into my mind since I don't think I've ever used it.
For the rest of the day that word stuck with me and made an appearance in my brain with every decision I was making and action I was doing.
What I ate for lunch; why I was logging onto the computer; what after school snack I had ready for the kids; what time I went to bed; when did I make time for prayer?
So, for 2013 this will be my mantra : Purposeful.
For all of the resolutions I might have made, being purposeful will hopefully help me accomplish some or maybe even all of them.
Be purposeful in the time I go to bed -- More rested and healthy.
Be purposeful in reading one chapter a night before turning out the light-- Desire to read more.
Be purposeful in NOT hitting the snooze button a million times-- Make time for daily prayer.
Be purposeful in what I eat-- Desire to lose weight.
Be purposeful in what I drink-- Less dehydrated means less hungry and hopefully no more kidney stones.
Be purposeful in walking Vader--Exercise plus making the greatest dog in the world happy.
Be purposeful in cooking--Get Bill and kids to eat healthier.
Be purposeful in logging onto the computer--Spend more quality time with my family.
Be purposeful in watching TV--Why do I even waste my time?
It's a start, and the last few days have been quite productive, I must say.
As I write this last line I see that it's 9:59pm. Time for bed! Oh no wait...Chicago Fire is coming on.
Dang, this is going to be hard.
What a great word! I don't think I've seen that one from anyone else.
ReplyDeleteGood morning, Kathleen! I love this post. I can relate to it on so many levels. Thank you for the insight and honesty. I am right there with you! Have a great Thursday, friend!
ReplyDeleteP.S. Love the Brady Bunch reference! I always wondered how Mrs. Brady could be so patient and sunny all the time. Now I realize, if Alice lived here and did all my cleaning and cooking, I would be too! : )
I have notice many of the same posts. I have put much thought into this as well. I feel I may have lost some of my "joy" and that is my word this year.
ReplyDeleteI love what you have picked! It really makes you stop and think before you do anything.
Happy New Year!
I love your word...and your honesty!
ReplyDeleteLove the word!!! Mine is "content". Trying to learn to be content with what I have and stop comparing myself to others, like your perfect Brady Bunch family. ;)
ReplyDeleteHow funny i emailed you a purpose-less youtube video 5 minutes before I read this blog. You can delete it!!
ReplyDeleteHi Kathleen,
ReplyDeletePurposeful is a great word!
Thanks for letting us know that your family isn't perfect...lol. I was beginning to think mine was the only less than perfect (uhm...way less)one in the blogosphere :)
prayers for a fruitful and purposeful journey in 2013. may you keep striving for perfection - ALL FOR!
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