Sunday, February 19, 2017

Matthew's First Reconciliation

I mentioned in my last post how Matthew was thrilled that his First Penance had been postponed last week due to the snow.  However, that feeling of excitement wore off the night before the scheduled snow date.  At bedtime he was in tears and filled with fear.  Some of us piled onto his bed to try to talk him off the ledge.  Nothing really sunk in until Dad pulled up this picture on his phone.

We all had a good laugh at the look on Matt's face as he was talking with one of our parish priests.  For some reason, that's all it took.  His fear went away and off to sleep he went.  I think confession is a scary thing, especially your first time.

The following night at the Penance service the gospel was the story of Jesus, The Good Shepherd.  Ironically, just two hours earlier I had taught this lesson to my first grade CCD students.  In class, we talked about what a shepherd is and what a shepherd does.  The responses I got made me smile.  The children reported that a shepherd takes care of his sheep.  They used words such as protects, and guides, and loves, and feeds.  Making the connection between a shepherd and Jesus was easy after that! Then I read to them the Parable of the Lost Sheep when Jesus leaves his 99 to go look for the one lost.

The homily that night kept the kids' attention.  The priest had the church's lost and found box up front so the kids could see it.  One by one he pulled things out of it. There was an umbrella, a pair of sunglasses, and even a set of keys, just to name a few.  No one has come back to retrieve them.  It was almost as if the owners of the items didn't know they were left behind.  They didn't know they were lost.

He challenged the congregation:  How does this relate to us?  Are we lost?  Do we take the time to seek out the shepherd who is always waiting to bring us back into the fold?  This kind of discernment is critical, I believe.  If we don't admit to being lost, we won't be found.  And in turn, we won't have the opportunity to be protected, and guided, and loved, and fed.

The Sacrament of Reconciliation is our opportunity to be found.  To lay it all out there, to hear His voice, and be forgiven.   Oh! And let's not receive grace.  What a gift!

Matthew did a great job.  We stopped at the grocery store and picked up a gallon of ice cream to celebrate when we got home.  It seemed only right.


  1. Congratulations to your little guy!
    What a wonderful...and a bit scary... time for him.
    You are such an awesome mother, my friend.

  2. Blessings to Matthew on his First Reconciliation. What a big moment, and yes! scary. I love the post and all the analogies in it.

  3. Hi Kathleen! What a sight I had in my mind of all of you trying to calm down your son. Thank God that your husband thought of that photo.
    Your priest sounds so wonderful, and I am just so impressed with that story of the lost and found. What a great visual! And one we can all relate to...a good thing to think about.
    I think the ice cream was perfect, a clean soul is a reason to celebrate! (Maybe if more of us followed that tradition, we'd get to Confession more often!)
    God bless,

  4. Congratulations to your Matthew. What a lovely story on the Good Shepherd, I've always loved this one. Thank you for sharing.

  5. Yay, Matthew! He is such a cutie. So happy for him!

  6. Bless me Father for I have sinned - it has been at least two weeks since I checked my sister's blog! Congratulations Matthew! That's Wonderful!