There is the famous quote that says, "Life is what happens when you're busy making other plans."
I have a bad habit of living in this "let me just get it done" mentality and not enjoying the process. I can't count how many times I prayed recently asking, "Just get me through May." The commitments seem to be overwhelming at times and I look forward to turning the page on my calendar to see more empty spaces.
Truth is, May was great. I entered the month with a feeling of dread, and when I sit back and reflect, it really was full of blessings. I got to watch my boys play baseball outside in beautiful weather. I saw Mary's love of running grow during track season. I watched Ann read a book she wrote out loud at her school. I had fun going places with Matt everyday. I watched people enjoy eating the many things I had to bake this month.
I'm learning as I grow older that the things I don't want to do usually end up being the most fun and have a great deal of joy and reward in them. I just have to make sure I look for it.
With that being said, I don't enjoy, and never will enjoy, packing these every night and will not miss it one bit this summer.
See, I'm getting good at this.
Hi Kathleen,
ReplyDeleteYes, I can relate! Like you I'm learning to "stop and smell the roses". Great post! It helps us remember what TRULY matters.
I don't like being really busy. I need downtime to recharge. That being said, I agree it's often those busy times that are the most fun. I didn't even want to go to the lake last weekend because of the car ride, the laundry after, I wanted to stay home and be quiet...but I am so glad we went!!
ReplyDeleteI never liked making lunches either...and I only had to make ONE!!!
ReplyDeleteHi Kathleen, Thanks for stopping by my blog! Love the family picture (dog and all) So cute! I know what you mean about packing lunches... ugh! I'll never love it either! I'm always mad at myself when I don't get a head start with it the night before! Can't wait to get to know you, tara
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